Philippians 2:3-4

Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others. Philippians 2:3-4







Sunday, August 21, 2016

Who Kills Your Food?

OK, maybe that is a little harsh, but many times the more elemental a statement is the more effective it will be. Unless you are a strict vegan, your every day diet probably involves a very inhumane, heartless process of raising animals in squalor, and then herding them to the dispatch facility.

Hunting is a way to get closer to the animals we respect, while giving them a more than fair chance to live their entire life in the natural environment they were meant to inhabit. I am NOT suggesting that everyone should become a hunter. We outstripped the lands ability to support that long ago.

What I am trying to get across is that maybe hunting isn't that barbaric thing everyone would have you believe it to be. In its truest and purest form, it is meant to be reverent and respectful. Grateful for the direct involvement in a pursuit that brings one closer to the actual symbiosis God has in mind for us. A life is given so that another can continue, and the relationship between hunter and prey goes on.


Thursday, June 23, 2016

Do This Daily...


This blog is one of my favorite daily rituals. Please follow the link below to see their take on how, and why, you should focus on GRATITUDE every day. It is a self creating practice that depends on your purposeful diligence.

http://www.marcandangel.com/2016/06/22/one-daily-gratitude-ritual-that-will-change-the-way-you-think/

Do This Daily...


This blog is one of my favorite daily rituals. Please follow the link below to see their take on how, and why, you should focus on GRATITUDE every day. It is a self creating practice that depends on your purposeful diligence.

http://www.marcandangel.com/2016/06/22/one-daily-gratitude-ritual-that-will-change-the-way-you-think/

Friday, June 17, 2016

Tiny Hooks Lead to Big Fish

Tiny Hooks = Big Fish

My wife has a friend at work that was talking the other day about a lake near his mothers house. He said she told him there were a lot of fish there and he should go by and check it out sometime. The problem was, he didn't have any equipment to go fishing. When I heard the story I realized it was on opportunity to share one of my real passions in life. I have been fishing, and thus collecting fishing gear all of my life. Some of my earliest memories were of sitting on the bank of a pond with my Grandfather. All we had were two bamboo poles, a couple of small hooks and a cup of worms we dug out of the flower garden behind his house. Even so, we caught enough fish to feed the entire family in only a few hours. In fact, we pulled in fish at a rate of about one per every two minutes or so. I am convinced the feeling of accomplishment in being successful, and pride from actually providing food for our meal that night, was a lesson that continues to be reinforced in me even to this day.
While sorting through my tackle looking for pieces I could share with my wife's friend, I decide to start him out small, like I was. I am sure there are some big fish in the lake he was talking about, but those can wait for another day. I found two rods with small close faced reels that are very simple to operate. If I had cane poles I may have even suggested them, but alas I have fallen prey to the technology of the day. In looking through some other gear I began to realize the importance of this "Learn to walk before you run" fishing philosophy. Like life, fishing is best learned in small pieces and from the ground up. If you can have some success in learning how to catch small fish, those same principles can be applied to and improved upon when it becomes time to seek the bigger fish.
Too many people these days assume that success is somehow owed to them and they want immediate large results. Professional fishermen roar around the lakes in $100,000 boats using electronics that cost as much as some peoples daily driven cars. They have ten specialized rods on the boat, with highly tuned open faced reels that take thousands of casts to perfect. Each rod and reel rig may approach $500 and the tackle in their multiple soft sided bags are equal to the worth of another small family car. Their goal for each day on the lake is to catch five large fish, have them weighed, and hopefully stack up against the competition. Then release the fish back into the lake. How many of our daily pursuits begin to look like this by comparison? How often do you invest large sums of money to engage in high stress competitive events (school, work, etc.) only to end up walking away with nothing after it is all over with?
I am not trying to say we shouldn't participate in the world around us. I am just saying that I bet if you asked those professional fishermen what their favorite memories of fishing were, they would probably talk about fishing on the bank with their granddad, or teaching their kids how to bait a hook and then watching the delight shine on their smiling faces as they enjoyed the "little things" in life. Every day we have the opportunity to learn something new in life. I just want to encourage you to slow down, start small, and appreciate the beginnings of what may someday be your passion. Don't go casting around with impossibly large lures expecting that trophy to jump on your hook with very little effort. Even if it did, the reward would not be appreciated and would soon give way to the reality of life. Every small action leads to a small reward. Small rewards accumulate into successful life habits, and those habits bring lasting fulfillment from a job well planned, acted upon and confidently accomplished. This happens when you build your life through appreciating the small gifts we are given every day.

Monday, June 1, 2015

Do Fishermen Always Catch Fish?


So you have planned a fishing trip to one of the finest trout streams in the country. You have purchased the appropriate licenses, clothing, fishing gear and high tech breathable waders. You have read all of the books about your quarry. You have spoken with others who have fished these waters. You have even hired the finest area guide to give you the highest opportunity for success. Now, as you step into the rippling waters of the trout fishing promised land, would you throw away all of your preparation and follow the advice you read about from a very successful off-shore tuna fisherman? After all, the fish he catches weigh upwards of 1000 lbs. and everyone wants to "catch the big one". Heck this guy is so good he has his own TV show about catching tuna. I mean, a tuna is a fish and a brook trout is a fish... so what would be wrong with using squid as bait here in this beautiful mountain stream? Just because no one else ever has? You are a progressive thinker, and you understand that just because it hasn't been done doesn't always mean it can't be done. This will be your crowning glory as the first mover on using 12 inch live squid in the trout stream. In no time you will catch that trophy Bluefin Tuna, hiding in the deep hole over there, that everyone else has overlooked.

While this may seem ridiculous to anyone who has even a basic knowledge of fishing, it is the same basic principle we see in leaders who know they need to move their company into e-commerce. They read and research everything they can get their hands on. They speak with their peers, in industry and out. They research and find consultants to help them with the integration. Then, for some reason, they begin to give direction that really seems to be out of context with their needs. Whether it comes from an inherent need to be the decision maker, or a displaced belief that the article they just read in Harvard Business Review has more relevance, no one knows.What is obvious to almost everyone except the new leader is that the entire project hangs on this new point of contention.

A.   Don't be this leader.
B.   If you see this happening to your organization, don't keep your mouth shut.
C.   If the contention is great, reach out for and share other opinions.
D.   To use another sports analogy... Don't fumble on the one yard line.

Business, like fishing requires great preparation. Many times it will also require specialized tools. Although decision making may seem a solitary effort, you owe it to others to make sure you have a thorough understanding of the goal ahead. 

In closing, see if you can find the business corollary for the following fishing habits.

1.   Know what you are fishing for.
2.   Bring the right equipment.
3.   Use the right bait.
4.   The right size hook makes a difference.
5.   Ask others what they have been successful with.
6.   Just getting a bite is not success. 
7.   You still need to set the hook and land the fish.
8.   If all else fails, hire a professional guide (and do what they say).

Thursday, March 26, 2015

A Defense of Nonsense, by G.K. Chesterton

A Defense of Nonsense, by G.K. Chesterton


Note: Gilbert Keith Chesterton (1874-1936) published the following essay in 1901, as part of a collection called The Defendant.
ChestertonThere are two equal and eternal ways of looking at this twilight world of ours: we may see it as the twilight of evening or the twilight of morning; we may think of anything, down to a fallen acorn, as a descendant or as an ancestor. There are times when we are almost crushed, not so much with the load of the evil as with the load of the goodness of humanity, when we feel that we are nothing but the inheritors of a humiliating splendour. But there are other times when everything seems primitive, when the ancient stars are only sparks blown from a boy’s bonfire, when the whole earth seems so young and experimental that even the white hair of the aged, in the fine biblical phrase, is like almond-trees that blossom, like the white hawthorn grown in May. That it is good for a man to realize that he is ‘the heir of all the ages’ is pretty commonly admitted; it is a less popular but equally important point that it is good for him sometimes to realize that he is not only an ancestor, but an ancestor of primal antiquity; it is good for him to wonder whether he is not a hero, and to experience ennobling doubts as to whether he is not a solar myth.
The matters which most thoroughly evoke this sense of the abiding childhood of the world are those which are really fresh, abrupt and inventive in any age; and if we were asked what was the best proof of this adventurous youth in the nineteenth century we should say, with all respect to its portentous sciences and philosophies, that it was to be found in the rhymes of Mr. Edward Lear and in the literature of nonsense. ‘The Dong with the Luminous Nose,’ at least, is original, as the first ship and the first plough were original.
It is true in a certain sense that some of the greatest writers the world has seen–Aristophanes, Rabelais and Sterne–have written nonsense; but unless we are mistaken, it is in a widely different sense. The nonsense of these men was satiric–that is to say, symbolic; it was a kind of exuberant capering round a discovered truth. There is all the difference in the world between the instinct of satire, which, seeing in the Kaiser’s moustaches something typical of him, draws them continually larger and larger; and the instinct of nonsense which, for no reason whatever, imagines what those moustaches would look like on the present Archbishop of Canterbury if he grew them in a fit of absence of mind. We incline to think that no age except our own could have understood that the Quangle-Wangle meant absolutely nothing, and the Lands of the Jumblies were absolutely nowhere. We fancy that if the account of the knave’s trial in ‘Alice in Wonderland’ had been published in the seventeenth century it would have been bracketed with Bunyan’s ‘Trial of Faithful’ as a parody on the State prosecutions of the time. We fancy that if ‘The Dong with the Luminous Nose’ had appeared in the same period everyone would have called it a dull satire on Oliver Cromwell.
It is altogether advisedly that we quote chiefly from Mr. Lear’s ‘Nonsense Rhymes.’ To our mind he is both chronologically and essentially the father of nonsense; we think him superior to Lewis Carroll. In one sense, indeed, Lewis Carroll has a great advantage. We know what Lewis Carroll was in daily life: he was a singularly serious and conventional don, universally respected, but very much of a pedant and something of a Philistine. Thus his strange double life in earth and in dreamland emphasizes the idea that lies at the back of nonsense–the idea of escape, of escape into a world where things are not fixed horribly in an eternal appropriateness, where apples grow on pear-trees, and any odd man you meet may have three legs. Lewis Carroll, living one life in which he would have thundered morally against any one who walked on the wrong plot of grass, and another life in which he would cheerfully call the sun green and the moon blue, was, by his very divided nature, his one foot on both worlds, a perfect type of the position of modern nonsense. His Wonderland is a country populated by insane mathematicians. We feel the whole is an escape into a world of masquerade; we feel that if we could pierce their disguises, we might discover that Humpty Dumpty and the March Hare were Professors and Doctors of Divinity enjoying a mental holiday. This sense of escape is certainly less emphatic in Edward Lear, because of the completeness of his citizenship in the world of unreason. We do not know his prosaic biography as we know Lewis Carroll’s. We accept him as a purely fabulous figure, on his own description of himself:
  ‘His body is perfectly spherical,
He weareth a runcible hat.’
While Lewis Carroll’s Wonderland is purely intellectual, Lear introduces quite another element–the element of the poetical and even emotional. Carroll works by the pure reason, but this is not so strong a contrast; for, after all, mankind in the main has always regarded reason as a bit of a joke. Lear introduces his unmeaning words and his amorphous creatures not with the pomp of reason, but with the romantic prelude of rich hues and haunting rhythms.
 'Far and few, far and few,
 Are the lands where the Jumblies live,'
is an entirely different type of poetry to that exhibited in ‘Jabberwocky.’ Carroll, with a sense of mathematical neatness, makes his whole poem a mosaic of new and mysterious words. But Edward Lear, with more subtle and placid effrontery, is always introducing scraps of his own elvish dialect into the middle of simple and rational statements, until we are almost stunned into admitting that we know what they mean. There is a genial ring of commonsense about such lines as,
 'For his aunt Jobiska said "Every one knows
 That a Pobble is better without his toes,"'
which is beyond the reach of Carroll. The poet seems so easy on the matter that we are almost driven to pretend that we see his meaning, that we know the peculiar difficulties of a Pobble, that we are as old travellers in the ‘Gromboolian Plain’ as he is.
Our claim that nonsense is a new literature (we might almost say a new sense) would be quite indefensible if nonsense were nothing more than a mere aesthetic fancy. Nothing sublimely artistic has ever arisen out of mere art, any more than anything essentially reasonable has ever arisen out of the pure reason. There must always be a rich moral soil for any great aesthetic growth. The principle of art for art’s sake is a very good principle if it means that there is a vital distinction between the earth and the tree that has its roots in the earth; but it is a very bad principle if it means that the tree could grow just as well with its roots in the air. Every great literature has always been allegorical–allegorical of some view of the whole universe. The ‘Iliad’ is only great because all life is a battle, the ‘Odyssey’ because all life is a journey, the Book of Job because all life is a riddle. There is one attitude in which we think that all existence is summed up in the word ‘ ghosts'; another, and somewhat better one, in which we think it is summed up in the words ‘A Midsummer Night’s Dream.’ Even the vulgarest melodrama or detective story can be good if it expresses something of the delight in sinister possibilities–the healthy lust for darkness and terror which may come on us any night in walking down a dark lane. If, therefore, nonsense is really to be the literature of the future, it must have its own version of the Cosmos to offer; the world must not only be the tragic, romantic, and religious, it must be nonsensical also. And here we fancy that nonsense will, in a very unexpected way, come to the aid of the spiritual view of things. Religion has for centuries been trying to make men exult in the ‘wonders’ of creation, but it has forgotten that a thing cannot be completely wonderful so long as it remains sensible. So long as we regard a tree as an obvious thing, naturally and reasonably created for a giraffe to eat, we cannot properly wonder at it. It is when we consider it as a prodigious wave of the living soil sprawling up to the skies for no reason in particular that we take off our hats, to the astonishment of the park-keeper. Everything has in fact another side to it, like the moon, the patroness of nonsense. Viewed from that other side, a bird is a blossom broken loose from its chain of stalk, a man a quadruped begging on its hind legs, a house a gigantesque hat to cover a man from the sun, a chair an apparatus of four wooden legs for a cripple with only two.
This is the side of things which tends most truly to spiritual wonder. It is significant that in the greatest religious poem existent, the Book of Job, the argument which convinces the infidel is not (as has been represented by the merely rational religionism of the eighteenth century) a picture of the ordered beneficence of the Creation; but, on the contrary, a picture of the huge and undecipherable unreason of it. ‘Hast Thou sent the rain upon the desert where no man is?’ This simple sense of wonder at the shapes of things, and at their exuberant independence of our intellectual standards and our trivial definitions, is the basis of spirituality as it is the basis of nonsense. Nonsense and faith (strange as the conjunction may seem) are the two supreme symbolic assertions of the truth that to draw out the soul of things with a syllogism is as impossible as to draw out Leviathan with a hook. The well-meaning person who, by merely studying the logical side of things, has decided that ‘faith is nonsense,’ does not know how truly he speaks; later it may come back to him in the form that nonsense is faith.

http://author-zone.com/a-defence-of-nonsense-by-g-k-chesterton/

Thursday, March 12, 2015

Luca Stricagnoli - Thunderstruck (AC/DC) - Guitar

Musical talent is one of those super hero talents that make the rest of us stand in awe...


Thursday, February 12, 2015

Jon Stewart

Whether you agree with the politics of Jon Stewart or not, most of us can respect his authenticity. He has announced that he will be leaving Comedy Central for an as yet announced project. That project may even be just living out his life, grateful for the success he has enjoyed up to this point. The United States is a unique place where we sometimes take for granted the freedoms we have. The video below from just after 9/11 shows the true essence of what is different about "us". We just need to be reminded sometimes of what we have... what may be lost if we don't appreciate our position... and how grateful we should be to live in the Greatest Country that has ever existed in the history of the world,




Thursday, January 8, 2015

Cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you & to give thanks continuously. - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Lauryn and Matt Wedding



Wednesday, September 24, 2014

The Similarities Between the Hunter and the Vegan



This has been my perspective for a long time. Many things shared in this conversation I have shared with friends in the past. A hunter is dedicated and respectful in his pursuit of a purist type of harvest and lifestyle. A vegan has made a non-mainstream choice, and should be respected for their resolve and steadfast decision to avoid animal proteins of all types. In many ways we both are rebelling against the typical careless thought process most Americans (I cannot speak to other countries habits) have towards where there food comes from, and the terrible heartless ways it is sometimes processed. Purity of food is a mindset that is shared amongst this diverse set. If you truly believe in what you do, you should be ready and willing to thoughtfully explain your position. Thanks to Steve Rinella for sharing his message in a professional manner.

"The closer you are to the source of your food, be it field, forest or farm, the more you will respect and honor it."

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

Lauryn and Matt are Married!!




Monday, January 20, 2014

Battling Cancer With Grace... Part 2

This is an excerpt of a touching story of one girl's journey through a battle with cancer. Aubrey Hernandez is a good friend of my daughter, and I have admired her resolve and attitude while dealing with an issue that no one should have to deal with... all with humor and grace.

Part 2


“God is preparing you for greater things.”

(Disclaimer: If you haven’t read part one of this story, then you should probably scroll down and do that first)
            Before I start the second part of this story, I just want to say a few things. I hope you don’t let some parts of this story change your viewpoint of me as the person I am now. Some parts of this story I am embarrassed about, and I am embarrassed by some of the thoughts I had as well, but without these parts of the story and thoughts that I had, I wouldn’t who I am and where I am today. I wouldn’t change anything about this story because it shaped and molded me into the person I am now, and there is nothing that I would want to change about that. I would just like to reiterate that this is my blatantly authentic story and my walk with Jesus. It gets ugly. It definitely is messy. My life isn’t the least bit perfect. I just want to show people it’s ok to be wrong and be someone who has made mistakes. It ok to be someone who knows failure, and its ok to have moments of pure weakness. Because, get real… everyone has made mistakes, everyone has been wrong before, and everyone screws up every once in a while. I don’t want my story to go unheard. Not because I want attention, but because I want it to be life changing to someone beside myself. I want my story to benefit other people… or another person, even if it were just one, then posting this would be worth it. I believe that everyone’s story has a purpose, no matter how embarrassing some moments are. God didn't intend for us to live our lives and be quite about the things that have shaped and molded us. And that's not want I intend to do either. I don't want to be quite about the things God is doing and has done in my life, and this is my way of shouting it to anyone who wants to listen. So as we continue, please keep these things in mind.

“We all have chapters we would rather keep unpublished.”

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Friday, January 17, 2014

Battling Cancer With Grace

This is an excerpt of a touching story of one girl's journey through a battle with cancer. Aubrey Hernandez is a good friend of my daughter, and I have admired her resolve and attitude while dealing with an issue that no one should have to deal with... all with humor and grace.

Part 1

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful do not just happen.” – Elizabeth Ros

This isn’t an autobiography. It’s not a love story. It might not have a “happy ending”. This isn’t about sympathy. It isn’t a place for complaining. It isn’t something to cause controversy about. It might not even be something that anyone reads. So what is it? This is a blatantly authentic story about a girl and her walk with Jesus. It gets ugly. It definitely is messy. My life isn’t the least bit perfect. I just want to show people it’s ok to be wrong and be someone who has made mistakes. It ok to be someone who knows failure, and its ok to have moments of pure weakness. Because, get real… everyone has made mistakes, everyone has been wrong before, and everyone screws up every once in a while. This story isn’t about popularity. I don’t want it to be famous. Then what’s the point of posting it for anyone to read? I don’t want my story to go unheard. Not because I want attention, but because I want it to be life changing to someone beside myself. I want my story to benefit other people… or another person, even if it were just one, then posting this would be worth it. I believe that everyone’s story has a purpose. God didn't intend for us to live our lives and be quite about the things that have shaped and molded us. And that's not want I intend to do either. I don't want to be quite about the things God is doing and has done in my life, and this is my way of shouting it to anyone who wants to listen. So were does this part of my life start. Well, it starts the day that changed everything.

“Don’t shine so others can see you. Shine so that through you, other can see Him.” – C.S. Lewis

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